December 2008 Archives

Friend Update: I didn’t exactly call her at her office and ask her if she wanted to be friends again.

I chickened out.

I’m one of those people who don’t like to call friends at work. I always feel like I’m bothering people when they should be working. And since we hadn’t talked in a while I didn’t want to just call.

I looked her husband up on Super Pages so I could call her at home. They used to be listed so I figured I should check again. No longer there. Seriously, what is with them going all unlisted on me?!!

But then I remembered way back when she used a Hotmail or Yahoo or Mail email account. So I sent a short “Is that you?” type of email out to a variation of her name at each of those domains. Most bounced back. One didn’t.

And I heard from her this morning.

We’re all set for lunch.

But I’m nervous. I found a current photo of her online and she looks great. Longer hair than before. Last time we saw each other she had this bold Tinker Bell hairstyle (but not blonde) and now she’s all different.

I’ve changed. I’m fat now. Ha! You know what I mean. I’m just different.

I’ll stop being ridiculous. But before I do, what if I get to our lunch and there’s really been such a change in our lives since we last saw each other that we no longer can be friends. That’d be awful. Is that even possible?

I’m going to go think positively now.

We are going to catch up and everything is going to be fine. Just like on my wedding day when she ran into the coffee shop with me all dressed up just for a photo opp. Not caring the whole Upper West Side must have thought we were crazy con queso.

I’m so excited. Found a lost friend.

Last time I saw her, my daughter was fifteen months old.

We grew apart. Actually, no. She wrote me off.

I missed her son’s baptism.

And although we were really close (she was my matron of honor), she got pissed.

Told me off in an email. Rightfully so. L

Without knowing I was pregnant again.

And having deep dark morning sickness.

That made me not want to leave my couch. Ever.

Of course it didn’t stop me from being able to use a phone.

I didn’t use the phone.

Didn’t respond to her email.

This situation is all my fault.

She doesn’t live here. And used to work hours away.

Found out she’s been working in Manhattan across the street from a friend’s apartment.

That apartment has a terrace that looks into her office window.

Yup, that close. For the past year or so.

Manhattan is a small, small world.

The thing is… her work email is not public.

So I’m thinking of calling her at work. Which I wouldn’t normally do.

Because what do you say to someone after so many years?

Besides “please don’t hang up”. Maybe –

I’ve been a bad friend. And I’ve been sad we no longer talk.

Oh and by the way, I have three children now.

I know I owe you a lot of drinks.

Get back in touch with a long lost friend? Everything A-OK now?

I’m usually so good at the supermarket.
Sticking to my list and stocking up on things on sale.

But occasionally I go on a shopping spree in aisle five or seven. Or both.

And Dagastino becomes the place I go in for a few staples and come out waiting for a home delivery.

I’ve been wasting my time …. and money … buying products at the supermarket that were less than exciting after first bite.

Like these –

New! Well, we all love new.

But the after taste, while reminiscent of an Oreo cookie, just makes me wish I never bit into Oreo Fudge Rings.

(My mother on the other hand likes them. So does Natalie. There I go again, being all high brow when it comes to snacks.)And these –

 

Who doesn’t love raisins. Well, it’s not like I hate these.

I was just expecting them to be JUMBO like Sunsweet promised.

And while some certainly looked larger than the average raisin (My grandmother claims one looked like a prune. She’s cute.) I spotted far too many the size of a currant.

Saying I’m too picky? Not fair.

I just want to have a handful of Jumbo sized red raisins (full of antioxidants) that are actually jumbo sized.

Oh but you know what?

The sight of one thing did delight me the other day while walking the aisles of my little old supermarket.

(And this should tell you the sorry state of my life!)

I found a large size (35.3 oz!) of FAGE 0% yogurt for me devour…

Well, for me to drizzle honey all over.

Shortly thereafter the honey and the yogurt would disappear into my tummy.

See… besides seriously needing help … there was a light at the end of the supermarket shopping tunnel.

What supermarket snacks have you been disappointed in lately? Any you love?

You have no idea how thrilled I am to see this year’s class pictures for the boys come with an added bonus.
Someone’s hand … Ew.


Did I mention these photos cost $117!!!!!

Yeah, um.

My Facebook friends got a sneak peek of this photo and had the funniest comments.

They’ve persuaded me to speak up to the photographer – and not just you.

Monday morning, that’s exactly what I will do.

(And I may also bring up the fact Harrison also doesn’t have a mole on his nose.)

What would you do?

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